Episode: 186
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Episode Summary:
In this episode I chat with Cece Sykes, an IFS lead trainer and author, about an experience many of us share: compassion fatigue and burnout. More than just feeling tired, burnout shows up as depletion of energy, hope, and satisfaction, affecting our internal and external systems.
We explore how our protectors keep us going, while our firefighters might lead us to distractions that don’t truly nourish us. We also discuss how burnout builds up over time, the role of chronic stress, and why it’s so important to listen to the signals our parts are sendin
For a deeper dive on the topic of burnout and compassion fatigue, Cece is teaching a workshop through Life Architect December 5 and 6, 2024 called An IFS Lens on Therapist Burnout.
Key Takeaways:
- Burnout isn’t just about doing too much; it’s about the chronic depletion of our internal resources.
- Protectors often keep us in overdrive, while firefighters offer temporary relief that doesn’t actually restore us.
- How can we better support our parts before they reach the point of burnout?
- True self-care goes beyond surface-level practices; it’s about understanding where our energy is going and making choices aligned with our values.
- Creating boundaries and allowing ourselves to rest can help break the cycle of overwork and exhaustion.
Favorite Quote:
“Burnout is depletion—it’s the depletion of energy, of hope, of peace of mind, and of satisfaction.” – Cece Sykes
About Cece Sykes:
Cece Sykes, LCSW, is an IFS Senior Trainer, therapist, speaker, and author known for her expertise in working with complex trauma and addiction. Her book: IFS Therapy for Addictions: Trauma Informed Compassion-Based Interventions for Substances, Eating, Gambling and More
Thank you to Life Architect for sponsoring this episode.
Jeff Schrum co-produces The One Inside Podcast. He is an IFS Level 1 practitioner.
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Tammy is grateful for Jack Reardon who created music for the podcast. Jack is a graduate of Derek Scott’s IFS Stepping Stones Program.
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